As Paul was on his way to Jerusalem in the Book of Acts, he stopped to give a farewell to his beloved Ephesians. In doing so, he reminded them that we need to “help the weak,” and that “it is more blessed to give than receive.”
“In every way I’ve shown you that by laboring like this, it is necessary to help the weak and to keep in mind the words of the Lord Jesus, for He said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’” [Acts 20:35 HCSB]
It is a blessing to be able to give, but I learned a long time ago that it is necessary for us to also learn how to receive. Often our pride keeps us from receiving from another. We think if we do so, we are “weak,” or as someone said recently, “destitute.” When our pride kicks in and we refuse to receive from another, we effectively keep others from being blessed in giving.
I remember as a Chaplain in Hospice when I ministered people would often want to give me something in return. One older man insisted after I did the service for his wife that I pick out one from the many teapots she had crafted. When I did, his smile was radiant. Sometimes it was just a plate of cookies or a small trinket, but each time I received something and thanked them for their generosity, it was an occasion of joy.
As Christians we should always be aware when others are in need and respond with our generosity and compassion. At the same time, as Christians, we must never allow any spiritual pride to keep others from also being blessed.
Father, You gave Your Son to us. May we give back to You our praise and worship today. Amen.