If you look at Romans 12:9-10 in the Greek, three totally different words are used to describe what we identify as love.

“Let love be without hypocrisy.” The word is “agape.” God’s brand of love. “Agape” love is not centered in the worthiness of the one being loved; it is centered instead in the heart of the one loving.  It is given freely, unconditionally.

“Be kindly affectionate to one another…” This comes from the word “philostorgos.” This word was used to denote the love of parents for their children, genuine, tender, free flowing as a bubbling spring might be. It is readiness and inclination to love, the most natural of love.

“…with brotherly love.” This is the word “philadelphia.” It means exactly what it says, fraternal or brotherly affection.

But it doesn’t end there. It goes on that we, as believers, are not just to love, but we are to honor one another above ourselves and give preference to one another, “…in honor giving preference to one another….” Giving preference in the Greek means to take the lead or show the example.

It isn’t enough to just possess qualities of love; we are to stride forth and take the lead in loving others. How we treat fellow believers, how we treat even those who hate us and persecute us, is an example to the world of the love of God. We don’t wait to see what others will do. We are to set an example.

Love! Unconditional love; genuine, natural, free flowing ready love; and brotherly affection. The hallmark of those who claim Christ as Savior. Taking the lead; providing an example.