According to Webster’s dictionary, contentment is synonymous with being happy, pleased, satisfied, comfortable, and at ease. Of course, we are all familiar with the famous contentment Scripture found in Philippians 4:11, “I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.” (That Scripture came up in a recent Bible Study I attended.)
As I was reading that I realized a marvelous truth found in that Scripture. To be content in whatever circumstance is not something that happens naturally. It is something to learn. “I have learned” Paul said, “to be content.”
I must admit that there are some things I learn easily, while others require a great deal of effort. Contentment is one of those that comes both easily and requires effort depending on the circumstances. I suppose it is that way for all of us.
Most of the time I am content. I don’t need a lot of “things.” Clothes, shoes, the latest gadgets, the newest cars, I find I can do without. I am content with what I have.
But there are times when I face disappointment, when outcomes are not what I expect them to be, that contentment flies out the window and discontent flies in. I fuss, fume, and sometimes say things I shouldn’t. I pester God to change His mind, but God rarely does. Most of time I end up having to repent or apologize or both.
In those times I learn a little more about being content. Probably not enough, however, and knowing my personality, I’ll probably have another go-around with this attitude in the future. It is a lesson I am positive God wants me to learn.